Comments on: Is this enough? Are you satisfy? http://xinyun.sg/2008/04/12/is-this-enough-are-you-satisfy/ Random ramblings, reviews and sharing Fri, 10 Feb 2012 03:04:18 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Just What Exactly Is Love | LimeTouch http://xinyun.sg/2008/04/12/is-this-enough-are-you-satisfy/comment-page-1/#comment-1224 Just What Exactly Is Love | LimeTouch Sun, 11 May 2008 02:10:23 +0000 http://xinyun.sg/?p=593#comment-1224 [...] the heat of moment under some influences, and I end up regretting it. In some ways, I am similar to Xinyun, if I am not satisfied with one relationship, I would jump to a better one, one which would put me [...] [...] the heat of moment under some influences, and I end up regretting it. In some ways, I am similar to Xinyun, if I am not satisfied with one relationship, I would jump to a better one, one which would put me [...]

]]> By: xinyun http://xinyun.sg/2008/04/12/is-this-enough-are-you-satisfy/comment-page-1/#comment-1223 xinyun Sat, 12 Apr 2008 14:52:15 +0000 http://xinyun.sg/?p=593#comment-1223 @ Tianhong: Heh, thanks :) I'll look before i "jump", haha! @ Sherx: Ah, true true :) Your r/s with your fiance, is what i would like to have... And yes, that's love and i know you can't imagine life without him :) And no worries, you aren't nagging, dearie... appreciate your concern! :) @ Tianhong:

Heh, thanks :)
I’ll look before i “jump”, haha!

@ Sherx:

Ah, true true :)
Your r/s with your fiance, is what i would like to have… And yes, that’s love and i know you can’t imagine life without him :)

And no worries, you aren’t nagging, dearie… appreciate your concern! :)

]]> By: Sherxr http://xinyun.sg/2008/04/12/is-this-enough-are-you-satisfy/comment-page-1/#comment-1221 Sherxr Sat, 12 Apr 2008 14:32:33 +0000 http://xinyun.sg/?p=593#comment-1221 Hey.. from my personal experience... you'll never know if the one you have is going to be the one. There will always seem to be better choices out there. I've been through enough (>10) heartbreaks and broken enough to realise all these. But what made me so sure that this is the man I want to marry? Well.. Love is important. Then is the level of comfort. And guess what I would never say this with any other bf but I want to see how our babies look like. That's the best reason. Pardon my old hag nagging. Trust me, True Love does exist. And the length of the relationship can never been a good gauge for marriage. I've been through one 7-year relationship but never for a moment I wanted to marry that man. But when I met my fiance, I wanted to marry him three months into our relationship! Strange hur? This thing called Love.... <em>Sherxr's last blog post..<a href='http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/UrResidentChef/~3/268976230/more-soy-in-teens-protects-against.html' rel="nofollow">More soy in teens protects against cancer!</a></em> Hey.. from my personal experience… you’ll never know if the one you have is going to be the one. There will always seem to be better choices out there.
I’ve been through enough (>10) heartbreaks and broken enough to realise all these.
But what made me so sure that this is the man I want to marry? Well.. Love is important. Then is the level of comfort. And guess what I would never say this with any other bf but I want to see how our babies look like. That’s the best reason.
Pardon my old hag nagging. Trust me, True Love does exist. And the length of the relationship can never been a good gauge for marriage. I’ve been through one 7-year relationship but never for a moment I wanted to marry that man. But when I met my fiance, I wanted to marry him three months into our relationship! Strange hur? This thing called Love….

Sherxr’s last blog post..More soy in teens protects against cancer!

]]> By: Tianhong http://xinyun.sg/2008/04/12/is-this-enough-are-you-satisfy/comment-page-1/#comment-1220 Tianhong Sat, 12 Apr 2008 14:17:27 +0000 http://xinyun.sg/?p=593#comment-1220 oooo icic. now the whole scenario changed. yup yup den its ok to "jump" ship but please aim before you jump. XD <em>Tianhong's last blog post..<a href='http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/plaktoz/post/~3/267447671/' rel="nofollow">NTU: Mac 0 Subway 1</a></em> oooo icic. now the whole scenario changed. yup yup den its ok to “jump” ship but please aim before you jump. XD

Tianhong’s last blog post..NTU: Mac 0 Subway 1

]]> By: xinyun http://xinyun.sg/2008/04/12/is-this-enough-are-you-satisfy/comment-page-1/#comment-1222 xinyun Sat, 12 Apr 2008 13:57:56 +0000 http://xinyun.sg/?p=593#comment-1222 @ Tianhong: Thanks for raising up questions like Kenny. I understand where you are coming from and i don't deny my logic is pretty flawed and self-centered. Let me explain, i need to rephrase "jump ship", as i meant it in "to end this r/s and start a new one" and not a re-bounce. And probably what i wrote came out a tad misleading. I based this on the situation i'm in, since i'm not dating anyone exclusively and have come to an understanding with the guy i date, if someone who seems more suitable comes along for either of us, i would give him my blessing and he would give me his. Perhaps to us, we just want each other to be happy. The kinda happy we somehow know we can't provide for each other and perhaps that's why we are still unable to get into the r/s level. If i based on my situation, i love that person more as a friend than someone i'd spend my life with. So to me, it would me better for us to seek new partners or "jump ship" in this sense. Not what you thought, as in a re-bounce or bringing someone else into the whole problem. I hope this clear things up :) @ Tianhong:

Thanks for raising up questions like Kenny.

I understand where you are coming from and i don’t deny my logic is pretty flawed and self-centered.

Let me explain, i need to rephrase “jump ship”, as i meant it in “to end this r/s and start a new one” and not a re-bounce. And probably what i wrote came out a tad misleading.

I based this on the situation i’m in, since i’m not dating anyone exclusively and have come to an understanding with the guy i date, if someone who seems more suitable comes along for either of us, i would give him my blessing and he would give me his.

Perhaps to us, we just want each other to be happy. The kinda happy we somehow know we can’t provide for each other and perhaps that’s why we are still unable to get into the r/s level.

If i based on my situation, i love that person more as a friend than someone i’d spend my life with. So to me, it would me better for us to seek new partners or “jump ship” in this sense.

Not what you thought, as in a re-bounce or bringing someone else into the whole problem.

I hope this clear things up :)

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