Comments on: Patience… http://xinyun.sg/2009/11/16/patience/ ... my thoughts, work, r/s and reviews... Tue, 09 Mar 2010 07:58:31 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: xinyun http://xinyun.sg/2009/11/16/patience/comment-page-1/#comment-1946 xinyun Tue, 17 Nov 2009 01:42:32 +0000 http://xinyun.sg/?p=1868#comment-1946 @ Joedie: thanks for sharing... i think i know what you are going thru... *hugs* hope things get better for you. .-= xinyun´s last blog ..<a href="http://xinyun.sg/?p=1868" rel="nofollow">Patience…</a> =-. @ Joedie:

thanks for sharing…
i think i know what you are going thru… *hugs*
hope things get better for you.
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]]> By: Joedie http://xinyun.sg/2009/11/16/patience/comment-page-1/#comment-1945 Joedie Mon, 16 Nov 2009 18:31:27 +0000 http://xinyun.sg/?p=1868#comment-1945 I'm in the same mood as you are today - worse for me is I wanted so much to post it out loud today but just can't as it involeve issues tat is too emotional and complicated.. most frustrating and annoyed me right now is I forever won't get the answers to my doubts rite now so maybe waiting is my only solution - wondering when I'll be able to get my solitude yet when back home I have to put on mask not to worry my family with my own stupid mistakes... cheers cheers dear blogger .-= Joedie´s last blog ..<a href="http://gohlaifong.blogspot.com/2009/11/my-special-anniversary.html" rel="nofollow">My special Anniversary</a> =-. I’m in the same mood as you are today – worse for me is I wanted so much to post it out loud today but just can’t as it involeve issues tat is too emotional and complicated.. most frustrating and annoyed me right now is I forever won’t get the answers to my doubts rite now so maybe waiting is my only solution – wondering when I’ll be able to get my solitude yet when back home I have to put on mask not to worry my family with my own stupid mistakes… cheers cheers dear blogger
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]]> By: xinyun http://xinyun.sg/2009/11/16/patience/comment-page-1/#comment-1944 xinyun Mon, 16 Nov 2009 01:43:54 +0000 http://xinyun.sg/?p=1868#comment-1944 @ BK: thanks for sharing :) yup, you are right, a scar will always remain when anger gets in the way. @ BK:

thanks for sharing :)
yup, you are right, a scar will always remain when anger gets in the way.

]]> By: BK http://xinyun.sg/2009/11/16/patience/comment-page-1/#comment-1943 BK Mon, 16 Nov 2009 00:33:51 +0000 http://xinyun.sg/?p=1868#comment-1943 Having patience is probably one of my top priorities too. There are just times when we lost it and yet like you mentioned, it didn't make it right to lose it. One story which I have always used to remind myself when I feel that I am losing it, is the story of a father and a boy. The boy was known to have very bad temper and one day his father asked him to hit a nail into the fence every time he felt he is getting angry. And the boy followed what his father asked. Every time he felt like he is getting angry, he hit a nail into the fence. Soon he found that it was easier to control his temper than to hit the nail into the fence. And so he controlled his temper. Until he told his father he did not need the nail anymore. Then his father brought him to the fence and asked him to pull out a nail. He did manage to pull one out but the hole and scar of the nail remained. The father explained to him that every time he got angry with someone, he might have said bad things or done bad things to that person and like the hole and scar of the nail, it could not be removed. Having patience is probably one of my top priorities too. There are just times when we lost it and yet like you mentioned, it didn’t make it right to lose it. One story which I have always used to remind myself when I feel that I am losing it, is the story of a father and a boy. The boy was known to have very bad temper and one day his father asked him to hit a nail into the fence every time he felt he is getting angry. And the boy followed what his father asked. Every time he felt like he is getting angry, he hit a nail into the fence. Soon he found that it was easier to control his temper than to hit the nail into the fence. And so he controlled his temper. Until he told his father he did not need the nail anymore. Then his father brought him to the fence and asked him to pull out a nail. He did manage to pull one out but the hole and scar of the nail remained. The father explained to him that every time he got angry with someone, he might have said bad things or done bad things to that person and like the hole and scar of the nail, it could not be removed.

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