XinYun @ SG

2009, a year filled with changes and trials…

Eventful year…

From change in higher management, shifting new offices, ’sitting in’ for new department and taking over new job scopes…
To personal issues, e.g. sorting out feelings, needs and goals, losing a friend to death, closing gaps and breaking unneeded ones, meeting old friends and finding someone special.

Win some, lose some.

But somehow, I managed through it…
With the help of friends, colleagues, DD and family… and of course, God

Thank you all who had helped me come so far and hope that 2010 will be a better year.
More excitements and good things to come!

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For DD, glad to have you by my side
For E, a year gone by. always remembered.

When a friendship is subjected to one person’s decision to whether it continues or ends… It’s not worth the trouble to continue or savage it.

As it’s subjected to conditions, which only that person can deem if it’s fair and the other party’s feelings or emotions are subjected to torment. All for the sake of one person’s pride or stubbornness, or thoughts that it’ll keep them safe and not hurt others.

Reason, because they feel neglected and / or not important.
But everyone has other priorities in life, eg. work, relationships and problems. So why the fuss?

I’ve heard such comments on ‘i wanna end this friendship’ or ‘i want to ‘format’ people out of my mind’ a couple of times, till i’m quite sick of it and numbed from such nonsenses. It’s like a threat, reminding that they have the rights and power to hurt you if you don’t listen to them when in actual fact, they don’t.

As much as I appreciate and thank you for all you have done, a friendship is all i can give and if you want to condition a friendship to your liking, that’s not going to happen. All my friends are equally important, as so is my significant other but priority will always be given to the person we love. Majority does that, so do you.

So there’s no need for constant reminders or announcements. ‘Cos all these announcements or counting downs are just constant reminders or threats, hurting people which you didn’t want to hurt in the first place.

So if you are going, I wish you all the best and goodbye.

Attended my nephew’s first month a couple of weeks back at Carousel…
He’s just sooo adorable, even though milk keep dripping outta his mouth

And it was my first time at Carousel, having its lunch buffet.

Well, our latest addition…
And hopefully more to come

Xmas gathering at work.
The food, drinking and laughters
*drooling over ham and turkey*

Presents from work, all adorable stuff

Lovely necklace from Bear-san

And lastly, DD’s creative present
We agreed to get each other gifts, under S$10 and him knowing i prefer creativity, came out with the above.

It’s not a real piece of bread, just a lookalike from Action City.
Although a little smudged but it’s the thought and creativity that counts.

Thanks to all…
Had a wonderful Xmas gathering, meetup and presents